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Bad Habits causing Stress
When a person has bad habits, you can bet that this person
will have stress throughout their lifetime. For example,
if a person smokes cigarettes it increases the vitals functioning
capabilities, which gradually affects the heart, lungs, and
other vital organs. An autopsy will tell if a person smoked
or not when the person is opened up. If the person was, a
smoker it will show on the body’s organs and the person’s
lungs will be black. Now we know that a person’s internal
organs are pinkish and when black is current then problems
occurred in the person’s life. When a person has problems,
stress is obviously overwhelming. Likewise, if a person drinks
heavily it affects the central nervous system and reduces
a person’s ability to cope with stress. Heavy drinkers put
their self in harm’s way by destroying the body and potential
going to jail in the future. As you can see, bad habits can
cause stress and will cause stress. When a person is born,
they are often healthy and if this person avoids bad habits
that cause harm then the person’s life will be rewarding.
If you are free of chemicals and substances that can cause
you harm you will have the ability to make good decisions
that offers you a successful future. Eating too much is also
a bad habit that needs modified. If a person overeats regularly
and avoiding exercise then this person is subject to obesity,
heart failure, strokes, diabetes and so forth. We see this
causes problems and problems are one of the elements that
cause our stress to increase. One of the obvious bad habits
that create potential dangers is stress itself. When a person
is lacking the ability to manage his or her life and becomes
stress every time an expectation presents itself then this
bad habit too can cause harm to the body. Coping means we
have the ability to manage our lives successfully without
creating stressors that cause our stress to increase. Minimizing
stressors can help us to live a more productive lifestyle
and provide us hope when times are hard to deal with. It
is never easy to eliminate a bad habit since it is obviously
a ritual, but it is possible to work toward reducing and
finally eliminating the habits that cause us stress. If you
are use to smoking a cigarette after each meal then tell
your self that today you are going to drink water instead
of smoking after a meal. If you drink coffee and it opens
your smoking cravings up, then start drinking orange juice,
milk or some other healthy beverage. If you are a heavy drinker,
tell your self every day that you are worth saving. Sit down
and review with your self the many problems you are facing
and if some are less severe than others are. If you are often
late paying your bills then you know that this is a problem,
so you will need to learn and practice paying your bills
on time. When you do not pay your bills on time, late charges
occur or shut-off notices following. As you can see, we all
cause a lot of our own problems, which initiates stress.
Sitting down and evaluating our situation and decisions can
help bring forth rewards by seeing the problems we created
and learning how to eliminate the problems in our lives.
For example if you are often late for work then you know
you have a bad habit that can cost you your job. You may
think that loosing your job is not a problem, since someone
else will hire you, but loosing your job is not the only
problem in the picture. If you continue to adhere to your
behaviors by being late for work, you are going to get a
bad repetition with businesses. Business owners talk amongst
other owners. Now you can permanent displacement is potential,
poverty, potential crime, and so forth. We are adding to
the list of problems by ignoring or not accepting that our
bad habits are the leading cause of uncontrolled stress.
Our decisions are at the top of the list that determines
if our stress is overwhelming or not.
Breaking
Down the Walls of Stress
Breaking down the walls (stressors) of stress is the key
to living a more productive lifestyle. If we learn and
practice stress management techniques we are reducing stress
by minimizing stressors. Your communication, thoughts,
beliefs, decisions, behaviors and so forth play a role
in how you life is arranged. If you believe that nothing
ever good comes to people then you are building a wall
of negative believing and thinking. To rearrange your thinking
you can review all the good rewards of your past and acknowledge
all the good that came to many people around the world
for doing good deeds and making wise decisions. You could
also review the bad that came in your life for making bad
decisions and also review the history of humankinds and
how their bad decisions affected many, including them self.
After you are done weighing the scale, you will then see
that good does come to people. Life can bring us many rewards
if we have the right stress management tools. When a person
is stressed, common sense should tell them to take a few
deep breaths and relax. If a person is overwhelmed with
stress exercising can minimize the stress and help clear
the mind. When the mind is cluttered, we are at risk of
making bad decisions. I want to share my stressful situation
with you. Writing is a great gift and art, but sometimes
it is the most frustrating task to handle. Writing articles,
books and other publishable pieces has many steps to follow.
However, I minimize my stress by viewing writing as a gift
and a source for learning. My goodness I have written around
50 articles on stress management and you would think that
I am ready to blow a fuse. I am writing the articles from
my own experiences and it sometimes brings forth a wealth
of stress, since I have to pull up all my resources. I
am learning from this experience however and it has proven
to be a great source for me, since I am not only writing
about stress, I am studying human behaviors, the human
mind and the human body, as well as producing helpful tips
for relieving stress. Therefore, I turned my negative stress
upside down producing a positive reward. This is all part
of breaking down the walls of stress. How we view, stressors
can also determine our ability to cope with stress. Stressors
are a stimulating force that causes stress. Stressors include,
financial obligations, family pressures, life pressures,
results from bad decision making, medical, mental, and
so forth. We can see how we can break down the walls of
stress by looking at examples. Pretend you are working
at a high-paced job that has overwhelming demands of you.
Your job involves arranging meetings, meeting deadlines,
and overseeing an area of the business. Each day you are
expected to handle each task sufficiently to avoid complications.
Now your boss has asked you to handle a particular task
that will include increase of revenue for the business,
since your responsibility is to produce an effective advertisement
slick that will focus on a specific product. You begin
the task and consider all details required to make the
advertisement slick effective. Once you begin the process,
you decide that other products of interest to you might
benefit the source in question. Therefore, you begin designing
and creating additional information jumping completely
off track of the subject. You have spent several hours
of company’s time and finally finish the task and hand
it to the boss for review. The boss approaches you and
asks you what were you thinking when you designed these
slick? You tell him what you goal included. Now you have
a problem since you made a bad decision. You are already
pressured from the job and now the pressure increases since
your boss is angry that you did not follow plans as instructed.
If you would have handled the task as instructed the results
would probably proved fruitful, however, you are adding
stressors to your life and increasing your stress. Breaking
down the walls of stress includes making good decisions
and following the guidelines that help us to do what is
right.
Limiting Stress
How can we limit stress in a fast pace world? Learning is
one of the best tools available for managing stress. When
we have an education and research the marketplace when something
is not clear to us then we are strapping our self with armor
that stress will not defeat. Education provides us the knowledge
to learn facts that will gear us up when someone attempts
to bring us down. Stress is a limiting force that influences
when fear presents itself. We all have to deal with fear
and fear is the leading cause of all of our problems, since
emotions are triggered by fear. This is where education comes
in since it can help us to determine right and wrong and
help us to avoid encounters that can lead us to fear and
danger. Stress can benefit us if we view stress as a challenge
rather than a fear. When we are educated, we are aware of
the potential roadblocks ahead and the dangers lurking around
the corners. A wise man with consistent stress management
strategies will not walk into a dark area where known gangsters
hang. Rather a wise man will take all precautions to avoid
such dangers because his stress management scheme is focusing
on current, potential, and life in general. A young mother
with a tight fitting stress management scheme will investigate
before leaving her children in the hands of strangers. She
will weigh out the consequences, potentials, and analyze
the person in question carefully before making a decision.
Education helps us to stay focus and us our head in all situations,
including each decision we make. Danger exposes us to harm,
injury, death, pain and loss. Therefore, a stress management
plan backed with education can reduce the exposure of danger
involved, minimize fear and control stress. On the other
hand, stress can hurt us. If we are not educated, lacking
coping skills, and have difficulty making good decisions
then danger is lurking around the corner. We can look at
many examples to see how decisions can increase stress levels.
We can see how overwhelming stress can affect one or more
life when decisions are made impulsively. One man came home
from work to find his wife gone. He suspected that the wife
was having an affair so he went to the location where he
thought she might be since he found her there before. When
he reached the location, he observed his wife and her ex-husband
getting in his sports car. Instead of confronting the problem
logically, he drove off on his motorcycle, went to the bar,
drove off in an outrage and hit a pole. The man was in a
coma for several months and when he became alert in the hospital
he had no memory and to date he limps. The man had children,
so we can see his illogical decision caused stress for several
lives. He has difficulty managing his stress level more than
ten years later simply because the nervous system was affected
reducing his ability to cope with stress and stressors. Now
how did he affect everyone? The healthcare system was touched
by his decision, the children suffered from his decision,
the doctors were stressed trying to keep him alive, and he
lost everything he owned due to his illogical decision. This
is fear, danger, stress, emotions, decisions, and logic all
tied into one bad decision. As we can see, decision plays
a large part in stress management. When we have education,
our decision process is easier since we have knowledge and
knowledge contributes to our behaviors. A well-educated individual
makes bad decisions, since we are all humans, but for the
most part education presents us from walking in harms way.
There are other techniques available that help us limit stress,
including breathing techniques, visual, self-talk and so
forth. If you are feeling frustrating take a few deep breaths
can help release your anxiety and reduce your stress. You
may want to learn more about the symptoms of stress, since
this will help you to understand when you are overwhelmed.
Getting the facts is the only GREATEST stress management
tool that will lead us to the road to success.
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